The first chapter of the book is about decorum, and as it was stated in the introduction this is the polite smile. At the beginning of the chapter, the author states that sometimes the smile of an adult is a kind of mask. There are a number of situations in where we exchange smiles to be polite but it does not mean that these smiles are insincere. When we are meeting new people, we tend to notice that if they do not smile we might get the impression that they are unfriendly. But a smile does not tell everything because after a few minutes we start to observe certain manners that makes us change our
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" When in social situations we meet people for the first time, we notice if they do not smile, and may form the impression that they are unfriendly or cold. In some cases we will recognize that a painfully shy person finds this situation unbearably difficult, and does not smile for that reason " (Trumble 2).
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The minute I read this quote I felt identified with it because I am not a very sociable person a first. I can be pretty shy at first and it takes time for me to get comfortable with that person and be able to establish a conversation without feeling weird or nervous. I agree with the part when he says that if a person does not smile a shy person will be in a difficult situation because sometimes a smile shows that a person is kind and wants to talk to you or help you out if you are new in a place. But sometimes the shy person is the one that has to give the first step and smile, and if they see that their smile is ignored then they just get over it.